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Sunday, October 10, 2010


It's crazy how body image can cause such an impact on someone.How when you think your losing weight, inevitably your gaining it back.

How when, a love one ask you if your gaining weight,it lets you down and how 15 lbs  seems like the whole world has come crashing down on your self esteem as if all your high hopes on becoming beautiful have been toyed around with and beauty has now become an uneasy sight in your eyes.

Each pound added by your loved one seems like a failure  on your part, cause you promised yourself you would become beautiful, but the added weight represents a shackle keeping you from gaining that feeling of being beautiful

Then your shackles  are released not because you lost the weight but because you learned that the meaning of beauty depends on the eye of the beholder and as a woman I decide to believe that i am beautiful because beauty isn't about the outside it's about how you carry yourself from within

If you believe that you are beautiful than you are most definately beautiful because we have control over how we precieve ourselfs not how others precieve us

Our opinions about ourselves is what counts  we can be our own worst enemies or we can be our own best friends.

So next time when you look at yourself within the mirror pick out what your are proud of instead of picking out your flaws, while remembering that flaws are actually aspects that make you different in your own unique way from everyone else in this world.


  1. Hi I like your poems they're very nice. I would love to read some more poems of yours. I'm going to be a great fan.

    Yours Truly,

  2. This poem truly does speak to me. You remind me of myself when I was younger when I used to write poems. You have true talent. You are going to be very famous when your older, I can tell.